Thank you, Thomas Peisker, you wiser-than-your-eighteen-years young man.
My family was locked into a dog-chasing-its-tail conversation on Sunday when my nephew said my new favorite three words:
“Let’s move on.”
Isn’t that terrific advice?
Yes, the American Olympic uniforms were made in China, and that sucks, but is it worth beating your Facebook drum over and over and over again? Am I not supposed to enjoy the Olympics, or life as we know it, for that matter?
Let’s move on.
Yes, Mitt Romney or President Obama or [insert politician or 1% agenda item or 99% agenda item here] made you mad, but should you spend an hour researching it today on the web and then getting onto Facebook and stating your case, then getting onto nine blogs and re-stating the case?
Should you let it misdirect you from doing your work that matters?
Let’s move on.
Should you hunker down inside your business and hope things go back to the way they were?
Should you bring the whole office down because the old boss was way better than the new boss?
Can we just agree that everyone’s to blame and no one’s at fault? Or that no one’s to blame and everyone’s at fault?
Can we stop expecting the good ole’ days to return?
Let’s move on.
What’s your work that matters? What’s the next step? What are you waiting for?
I’m not saying it’s not our responsibility as citizens to do our best to be part of an informed electorate. I’m not saying your old boss wasn’t better than your new boss.
I’m just saying it’s not your job to inform me if you have other things you should be doing.
And I’m betting you do. And I’m betting I do, too.
So, take a breath. Your face is purple, for heaven’s sake.
And let’s move on.
There are two primary choices in life: to accept conditions as they exist, or accept the responsibility for changing them. – Denis Waitley (Hat tip to Ashley Green!)
heidi crouch says
YES! Very well said. I’m gonna move on now…
kim debose says
LOVE THIS! So true! Move on and letting go is hard for some people. But in order to be the best we can be, we have to move on. Learn from all of our mistakes, and never judge others for theirs!
Sorry, I just had to comment on this one! Moving on now…
jody christopher says
i like this (and needed to hear it this morning)….a version I adopted from attending a lecture/reading by Judith Viorst is: Let go and let be. I can do the first; still struggle w/ the latter. I tell my granddaughter, “LIG,T!”=”Let it go, T.” The other day she looked at me and said, “LIG,N!”=”Let it go, Nan!” Works for us. 🙂 I think we’ll add: “Remember to have fun.” and “Let’s move on.”
Jeff Mac says
Spot on Tim, as usual.
Anthony Dina says
Oh so gonna add that to the repertoire. Thanks.