About four years ago, I sat at the bar with Scotty and Aric – my two buddies.
That night, for the first time, I said out loud:
“Our son has autism.”
I didn’t break down in tears when I told them. The tears came about an hour later when it occurred to me – there with my guys – and I muttered aloud:
“I guess he’ll never get to play little league.”
It’s funny the things you focus on as a relatively new dad – the things that you idealize and dream about and consider important.
At that time we had no idea what was in store for our family over the next few years. I guess none of us do.
I could rack up a bazillion baseball metaphors, but I won’t.
I will tell you the kid loves baseball. He adores baseball.
And, God Bless Him, we are fortunate enough to live in a special town with some special people that started a special league for special kids.
We’ve all come a long way. Him most of all.
About four years later – tonight – I asked my son if it would be okay if I was his coach in the Challenger League of Daniel Boone Little League Baseball.
He looked me in the eye. Unprompted. If you know him, you know that’s something, but there’s more.
“Yes!” he said.
If you’d like to come cheer on some special kids, look us up on Monday evenings on Diamond 4.
Three innings. Everybody bats. Nobody loses.
Nobody.
Later, after he went to bed, his mama told me what Will told her about me being his coach:
“That … is … exciting! Now, everyone will know he is my dad!”
Wow Tim!! You have an amazing son who just adores you. Thanks for this beautiful story. Go Will!!
Tim, this story made my evening on what was a long day. I can’t even imagine how great you must feel.
Funny how that night seems so fresh and so distant all at the same time. Can’t wait to come watch Sluggin’ Willie…
The big A sucks, but you are making the best of it. We are trying hard too. Glad to hear you nice story. These stories are important for the days when things don’t go so well. Peace.
I coach a Special Olympics softball team and love it.
Challenger League ROCKS!! I have had more fun at Challenger League games than any other—everyone is a winner, everyone gets to succeed at their level, everyone has fans, everyone gets to play, everyone gets to score–and it is done in a fun, but not gratuitous way. Hope you and Will LOVE it!
Ann (a friend of Lynn and Nancy’s from WAY back, who works with kids with “A” and other challenges, in CU)
Tim,
So happy for you and Will. My husband coordinates the Challenger league here in CU and it is amazing. The kids and families have such a great time, and the volunteer support for this league is unbelievable. No doubt that Will, is destined be a all star! If you are back home between now and the end of June, the league plays on Saturdays in Urbana. I know you and your son will have tons of fun! Enjoy every moment.